You may have read a few thoughts here about the problem with social media as what Infinity Gauntlet calls “universal input,” the immediate awareness of all life and matter. I’ve talked about taking a break from Facebook and about not really missing it and not realizing how long I’d been gone.
It also occurs to me that not participating in social media may have unintended, isolating effects. But I think the remedy there remains in the real world of in-person interaction, something that’s increasingly easier to withdraw from given an expended digital presence. It’s a not-altogether-surprising idea.
Another tech analogy seems apropos here: the need to reboot. Reconsidering the social graph has helped reboot my neural pathways away from the reward system some forms of social media train us to crave. 100 years ago, Max Weber talked about labor rights, economic issues and social anxieties in terms of an “iron cage.” The Cold War brought us the Iron Curtain. Billy Joel gave us the Nylon Curtain (and we’re living here in Allentown), language for a social and economic barrier that seems far more permeable than it really is. In the digital age, we have to consider the digitization of our curtains and cages. Their existence isn’t as obvious, and we’re often hemmed in without knowing.
I don’t have any pat answers, but I can say who and what I understand myself to be.
I am a child of God, a follower of Jesus.
I am a pastor, a progressive Christian.
I’m a graduate of Yale Divinity School (MDiv) and the New School (MFA, creative writing) and Ursinus College (political philosophy).
I participate in my family business.
I am an advocate for people living in poverty and people experiencing homelessness.
I am working on projects that synthesize these settings and experiences, some of which are obvious and public, some of which are quietly rejected by literary journals, and some of which are works in progress with varying degrees of promise.
I feel very, very free. I know that many people don’t.
I find this video therapeutic.
I miss Prince and Tom Petty and Leonard Cohen.
I have more to do.
I believe in forgiveness. I need it and I need to give it.
I believe in sharing grace and giving people a break.
I believe baseball is the Beautiful Game.
I believe in local farms and local food.
I believe kids grow up fast, and I don’t believe life should ever be what happens while you’re busy making other plans.